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Five Kinds Of People Who Can Not Be Deeply Crossed In The Workplace

2007/9/18 18:05:00 41699

It is no use complaining when you are in a difficult position. You need to have a positive attitude and focus on useful things.

Clear your life goals, missions and long-term plans, list your personal achievements and benefits, and use them whenever you doubt.

If you associate with positive people, you should avoid asking "why", focus on your work and learn to be broad-minded.

Workplace Proverbs: 1) do not have deep friendship with each other. When you first arrive in a company, you can communicate with colleagues through casual chat and narrow the distance between them.

But there is a kind of person who has just known you, and soon poured out his grievances and grievances to you.

At first glance, this kind of person is very touching, but he may also tell anyone the same. You don't have much weight in him.

(2) gossip is not to be sworn in: it is generally believed that people who love Taoist people are right or wrong.

This kind of person likes to search for other people's privacy all day, complaining about his bad colleagues, and having an affair with his boss.

Long tongue people may stir up the friendship between you and your colleagues. When you and your colleagues really don't feel happy, he will watch the fire, watch the excitement and even applaud.

It may also encourage you to argue with your boss.

He told you to speak ill of his superiors, but he spread these words to the boss's ears in a more generous way. If your boss didn't see clearly, you would be sad at the time of the company.

3) for fear that the world is not messy, it is not suitable for deep friendship: some people are overactive and love to spread gossip and create tension.

"The company needs to lay off staff", "someone gets the appreciation from the boss", "the number of bonus payments this month", "the huge debts of the company" and so on.

If such people say these words to you, be sure not to believe them.

Of course, don't pour cold water on your head, just perfunctory: "Oh.

Is it true? "

(4) it is not appropriate to hand in hand to take advantage of the petty gain. Some people like to be petty and cheap. They think that they are "stealing the sheep by hand," and take away the company's belongings, such as stapler, paper, stationery, and so on. Although they can't be worth a few dollars, their superiors will never take care of them.

This kind of petty gain also includes making use of the company's time and resources to do private affairs or part-time jobs. It always feels that the company's salary is too small and does not make use of the company's resources to get some extra funds.

It doesn't seem like a serious problem, but once a company has more serious incidents, the boss may suspect such a person.

5) if you are blacklisted by your boss, you shouldn't go deep into it: if you observe carefully, you will find out which people your superiors regard as a thorn in your eyes. If you go too close to those who don't get it, you may be implicated. Maybe you will think this is too much of a trend.

But what is the way, don't you worry that you will be involved in the promotion process?

However, even if you don't have to go deep into it, you won't have to drop it.

To avoid the deep friendship, we need to communicate with them.

When you enter a new company, you should be friendly and generous and take the initiative to communicate with others.

For example, invite colleagues to have lunch or dinner, look for opportunities and ask questions on work, so as to express your willingness to cooperate with colleagues.

35 colleagues often gather together or sing, or go shopping, watch movies or play cards. As time goes by, friendship deepens, and there may be a "small group" from then on.

If your boss blacklisted you as a member of a small group, you will be unlucky.

Generally speaking, bosses always hold a mistrust towards small groups, and have concerns about small groups.

First of all, the boss thinks that people in small groups are hard to distinguish between public and private.

If someone in the circle is promoted, a better colleague may get favoured indulgence, which is not only bad for the company and career, but also unfair to other employees.

Sometimes, the boss is worried that people in small groups are "disloyal".

People who often get together are alike in spirit. Wakagami Ji criticizes or deduct money from one of them. If one of them conflicts with other colleagues, these people may unite to deal with their superiors or affect the unity of the company.

Besides, even if the boss wants to give a person a reward or a red envelope alone, this person will probably leak out to the friends in the circle.

It is very likely that not everyone will have a red envelope. If any other colleague knows it, he will think his boss is unfair.

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